Sleeping position may also affect frequency of these emissions. It is a strong sexual sensation that sends waves of pleasure from abdominal area to vaginal area, which makes a woman arch her back a bit and perhaps want to thrust her pelvis spasmodically. During my sleep i sometimes experience this vaginal throbbing that occurs from a sexual dream i saw. Does a woman have to do ghusl if she has a wet dream? The Prophet said: Yes, if she sees water (a discharge). Umm Salamah covered her face and said, O Messenger of Allah, can a woman have an erotic dream? He said, Yes, may your hands be rubbed with dust. Regulate sugar intake. I found mensturation not too difficult to deal with as I explained it to my younger sister before she started mensturating but i was kinda freaked out at the examples of two girls you gave about massager and shower how would you help them understand that its not right? If you have a wet dream when you are fasting and you notice discharge, does it break fast? Please see the questions answered by Sh. She should spend more time with her husband. Al-Bahr Ar-Raaiq: Sharh Kanz Ad-Daqaaiq reads: It is an obligation according to the agreement of the (Hanafi) scholars to perform Ghusl if one is sure that it is Maniyy (semen) whether or not he remembers having a wet dream, and if he is sure that it is Mathy and he remembers having a wet dream., The reason they say Ghusl is obligatoryis that what came out could have be semen but after a long time it became thin so when waking up, the personbelieves that it is Mathy. InshaAllah I will post all the proofs and details in a post. then go on to the Islamic perspective and rulings, etc. Also I am not sure how often would a women have a wet dream but I find it weird that I never had any wet dreams all my life until I got married and even then i probably had one or two of those occassions (and alhumdulillah I have quite a healthy sexual life). Then im not sure if ive been aroused or not. I feel disgusted just copying and pasting this. As for the practise of sprinkling water in ones garments to purify them, it should be avoided. It does not store any personal data. Whatever happened up to the point where a person wakes up is out of her control; however, what is done consciously is subjected to accountability. If a person is awake and has thoughts, then what usually comes out is the madhyy only which doesnt gush out and it can even come out without the person feeling it or realizing it because it can come out without ejaculation, and this type of discharge is considered impure and requires the person to make wudu but it does not require ghusl, where as semen coming out due to ejaculation requires that the person makes ghusl. Whats so hard about taking a shower? The answer being referred to by ustadha Shaista Maqbool is attached. And Allah Taala ( ) knows best. when i finally woke up, i remembered having wet dream with orgasm but i didnt noticed any wetness. Dreams that would render a ritual bath (ghusl) to be obligatory upon waking up while seeing madhi or mani are dreams in which what . (the wife of the prophet s.a.w) is the one who narrates the hadith, but she isnt the one asking the question. I am a young teenager and I have recently found out about this. Kind of embarrassing to post a reply here, I read your explanation of orgasm and the part where it says when a person wakes up before having an orgasm. it continued untill 7 am the next day. I read your description but Im still not convinced. Im very confused and I read dua every night. Anything that i hear im worried that itll be converted into a sexual thought . Fasting and praying is better. Please keep in mind that this fatwa is in answer to a mans question. GET MARRIED. please clarify . He is an active instructor at SeekersGuidance and answers questions through the SeekersGuidance Answers Service. I saw the Prophet praying while I used to lie in my bed between him and the Qibla. He is an active instructor at SeekersGuidance and answers questions through the SeekersGuidance Answers Service. Upon remembering a wet dream and finding wetness upon yourself, a ritual bath (ghusl) is obligatory for you to perform in order to pray except if you are sure that this wetness is merely a sweat or post urinal fluid (wadi). By clicking Accept, you consent to the use of cookies. The place for the intention is in the heart, meaning you know that you are standing to pray maghrib 3 rakahs, so you dont have to say it out loud. Im sorry for being so explicit, but this is just porn covered with an Islamic label. She is a pastoral counselor for marriage & family, women and youth issues. (sorry i will be slightly descriptive, please forgive me, but i need the right answer so i know im doing things correct) So i went to check and i had a very faint..very faint brown or really light brown spot on my pantie liner. Is it permissible to watch recorded videos of female teachers, as part of an online course, during Islamic fasting? Is this specific to wearing the khimar during salah, or does it mean wearing the khimar in general when going out of the home? Al-Liqa al-Shahri (37/25). 2. 1: Yes , masturbation is haraam [uncertain for married couples though]. I dont have much of wet dreams honestly and usually I am sure when I see them, because even if I dont remember the dream itself the moment when relaxation comes and you feel weak, climax etc, that moment I usually wake up. And Allah knows best. How to distinguish if the discharge is from climax or just the one that breaks wudu? Foremost, wet dreams are normal, common, and don't mean one is a sexual deviant. How much value and peace of mind such information could add to these young people. Any bad habit can become addicting and should be limited. How about if your father and brother were reading this? yasir, that a woman may have a wet dream (with orgasm) but without an obvious discharge. Until you dont see anything count yourself as pure. A much needed article. Please help me! Get up for tahajud and pray to Allah that he removes these thoughts until you get married and for Allah to provide you with a good spouse. Fast Arousal results in vaginal throbbing; but orgasm is an intense feeling which leaves a person satisfied. How much I would have liked to have shared the knowledge within it. Having a sexual dream does not mean the person had an orgasm, although it might. The sooner the betterbut definitely before praying or any other acts of worship, Salam Is this true? It is a strong sexual sensation that sends waves of pleasure from abdominal area to vaginal area, which makes a woman arch her back a bit and perhaps. These cookies will be stored in your browser only with your consent. When I went back to bed I felt discharge do you think this discharge could be a result from the dream?? I am so glad I found this article. No its not haram, and Allah knows best. I need to know this from a Muslim. They didnt mix around with men and women together discussing what it feels like for a woman and what it feels like for a man, Aoudhubillah. If I have shower, will the get rid of the impure state from the wet dream even though I am on my menstraul cycle? Now come scenarios that are mixed with doubts, could you kindly answer them too, please? If a woman does not remember any sexual dream but wakes up with yellow discharge, is ghusl obligatory? I have never had a wet dream and about 7-8 years ago a few friends and I had a conversion and desired to quit M for a bit to see if we could induce one. And to the brothers, if you knew the messenger of Allaah sallallhu alayhee wsalam, his wives and companions were reading this, would you dare utter such words like: In response, I just wanted to share my experience. I cant be certain if there was any discharge. JazakAllah Khair. If someone thinks that he had a wet dream, then he wakes up and does not find any wetness, he does not have to do ghusl, because of the report narrated by al-Bukhaari (130) and Muslim (313) from Umm Salamah, who said: Umm Sulaym came to the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and said: O Messenger of Allah, Allah is not too shy to tell the truth. secondly i need to ask that i have a problem of lakoria and i cant distinguish between my wetnees n lakoria so in that case i am not sure that wether i get discharge or not due to wet dream so i shud do ghusal or not? I understand that there is a wet feeling but that isnt easy to make the difference so can you please explain how to know? I saw a wet dream. So Im sure if you met the Prophet Muhammad, you would have found him pleasant to be around in this matter, and would probably tell him preach on as regards telling people about this. First, the Muslim should make their intentions for purification. These cookies ensure basic functionalities and security features of the website, anonymously. i want to ask a question that when i have wet dream i feel some kind of pain in my vagina?? could it be that the wetness had dried? Does a woman have to do ghusl if she has a wet dream? The Prophet said: Yes, if she sees water (a discharge). Umm Salamah covered her face and said, O Messenger of Allah, can a woman have an erotic dream? He said, Yes, may your hands be rubbed with dust. Also, do those ejaculations while awake require ghusl because if it did people could end up taking so many ghusls? We all make mistakes but only a few of us actually reflect back and learn from it. The person has the intention in his heart before he starts praying. Now, inshaAllah, whenever a young, confused girl will do a search for this term on the Internet, hopefully she will be directed to this post of yours, for the right answers in Islamic jurisprudence. I would have appreciate knowing ways to reduce the frequency to avoid having to take 3 showers in one night, if for no other reason Most of this is cultural. It was nice and a very open talk since the one giving the lecture was a female herself. This does not purify as it does not count as washing. Ibn Al-Mundhir said, "All the people of knowledge, as far as I know, agree on this point." The hadith of Umm Salamah mentioned earlier supports this proposition. I would like to know the rights of the mother and the wife, so that I can maintain a balance in the family. I had a wet dream but I woke up seconds before my orgasm. Foremost I wanted to instil in them, empathy and compassion. Usually when I am afraid to see any man in my dream or even think of such things awake, I experience a wet discharge, like lubrication, the one that only breaks wudu, so I guess I was having it that moment as well and may be even had during a sleep already. How about if your mother and sister were reading this? Does a woman need to do ghusl if there clearly was no orgasm, but wetness is seen due to sexual thoughts? I suppose her mother or elder sister or female relative should explain to her. So when the need rises, one must ask in order to educate themselves regarding these issues which are of utmost importance. i need to know if i is normal or i need to consult to doctor? if a women get wet dream in day time and his vagina get wet but she doesnot find any drops of liquid in her inner or pant. 2: [correct me if im wrong ] but i dont think thats a problem as long as youre covered. One last thing is that when praying in congregation, the sutrah of the Imam is considered a sutrah for everyone praying behind him, so it is sufficient for the Imam to pray towards a sutrah only. Do you have any contacts where we could purchace Alim books. movies). In the name of Allah, Most Compassionate, Most Merciful. I think it was about me catching a theif or something. It seems that she takes issue with being lumped together with dogs and donkeys. Now when i sleep in those clothes and wake up i still find them wet although i now deep its wetnes frm sprinkling as i dont recall seeing wet dream. If it was colourless wetness then just wash the area and make wudhu. Sister thank u so much for clearing that stuff up for me but in one the hadeeths or quranic verse it says that having wet dreams is a sign of puberty and I havent hit puberty yet Im 13 so does that mean that it is fardh for me to start praying on time etc. 6. I dont get why people need to reduce the frequency of wet dreams that they have, it is not like it is in their hands nor will Allah hold them accountable for it because it is not something wrong in of itself.. Can it be considered as Qarze-Hasana if failed to repay? Can the Imam conducting the Nikah also be one of the Witnesses? In such cases of doubts and wetness do we have to make ghusl or not? How else would her child resemble her? (Bukhari). 3. As for just the discharge, as you can read in the QA with sh. I know this was posted almost 10 yrs ago so most likely my question wont be answered but First, the Muslim should make their intentions for purification, then wash the private parts. So i never physically rubbed my vagina or insert something in, to get an orgasm or feel satisfied but i have cupped my vagina and tightened my legs between my hands and thought of sexual thoughts while awake. Any suggestions on how to open up the topic of puberty etc etc with children? I didnt went to the bathroom before sleeping so it could have been there before I went to sleep but it could have occured during sleep also, Im not sure. If you are following whats right, dont fear the blame of the blamers and correct me. Please advise me, may Allah reward you. Qn 2; if in your dream you never reached climax but there had been some amount of discharge when you woke up does this require ghusl? You also have the option to opt-out of these cookies. Just wondering if theres a hadith to this? Ata Al-Kharasani (he is in An-Nasais route, #198) used to commit Tadlees as stated in At-Taqrib and he narrated this Hadith via Ananah (truncated form), so it cannot be known whether he did hear from the one he should be narrating from. Make positive statements about yourself and your situation: Im a young muslim below the age of 18 I saw a wet dream but I wasnt doing anything wrong in my dream. We do not know of any difference of opinion concerning that either. Stress on INVOLUNTARY. Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning): and [Allah] has not placed upon you in the religion any difficulty. I read that the female maniy maybe white sometimes. (Anyone reading this comment please dont quote me because I dont know how authentic that hadith was and I cant remember the exact wording) I cant know whether I achieved this significantly or insignificantly. Umm Salamah asked: What about women, O Messenger of Allah? 3. Am I required to pay Zakat on a car that is owned by me, if I use it to deliver food? If its too embarrassing over the phone, request the sheikh to ring you after the show and they do. Sister Reem, i sometimes have an orgasm during sleep but when i wake up there is no wetness in my undergarments, do i still have to perform ghusl?Since in the Hadith Prophet Mohammad(pbuh)said if you see the discharge then perform ghusl ,if you dont see then there is no ghusl. I was going through female ejaculation on google and some researches indicate and scientists say that sometimes when women are sexually excited the fluid ie semen can be secreted even without orgasm.Then do women have to perform ghusl every time they are sexually excited even if there is no orgasm or sexual pleasure?It will make life difficult for women since female ejaculate is very difficult to differenciate from other female discharges.Please clarify since i am very depressed due to waswasas and it is making my life difficult. Rather, as in many places in the shariah, one has to return to ones common sense and ones observation based on what one is reasonably sure of (ghalaba al-Dhann). I know this was posted like nearly ten years ago and I most likely wont get a reply but I cant find the answer to my question elsewhere, so.. Qn 1; does rape, sexual abuse, ambiguous consent, just kissing in your dreams count as a wet dream? How can one have a wet dream which includes an orgasm?Does this mean whilst shes asleep she has an orgasm.Can this orgasm be heard from people around her? She explained to her mother that it felt good. Similarly, once a sister saw her young daughter (around 7) using the shower massager on her private areas while taking a shower. Sometimes some sisters get strong rhythmic contractions but they wake up and do not touch that part. 1.If a person constantly has sexual thoughts which she tries to avoid all the time but see no discharge at all will that break her wudhu? 8. Salam! I feel so tired and exhausted and drained. like she didnt know it was bad to touch self and stuff. but when she wakes up and no wetness then thats fine although its better to perform ghusl. I cant smell my underwear as it was the same one I wore when I had the wet dream before suhoor. If a woman has a wet dream of herself masturbating and feels aroused(vaginal throbbing) and sees discharge but cannot tell if this discharge is from the dream or the daily discharge women usually have. When I feel something I think its orgasm and since Im not sure of the characteristics of maniy, I will think any discharge I see is maniy. Performance cookies are used to understand and analyze the key performance indexes of the website which helps in delivering a better user experience for the visitors. Do you actually have a sex dream that ends in an O and you wake up wet, or is more you wake up in morning with Jizz in your pants with no memory. I keep pushing the thoughts out of my head, but sometimes feel I cant. If she did have an orgasm, it will automatically imply the sexual discharge too. what should she do? JazakAllah khair for such an informative post. By clicking Accept, you consent to the use of cookies. There was a time when I was unmarried, in college(with fitna EVERYWHERE especially during summer sessions), and abstaining from masturbationthese 3 factors increased the frequency of my wet dreams to at times 3 times a night. Masturbation slows down or stops wet dreams. What about with your spouse? Their words seem to prove the neutrality of performing this act, and thus it is permissable . So Im not quiet understanding when is the time i need to do ghusl. If you had a dream in which what was seen was mainly intercourse and no wetness is found upon waking up you are not in a state of major ritual impurity (janaba) and you don't need to perform a ritual bath. Am I to just live in my bathroom? The cookie is used to store the user consent for the cookies in the category "Analytics". In which case, if the young daughter experiences a wet dream, she may not know the. What Should a Virgin Girl Do after a Wet Dream? Keep in mind that I dont have my own family or kids yet, so what I said is only based on my observations, so I might be completely wrong, and Allah knows best. It would be embarassing to do it as i know myself what it is. I cannot imagine anyone in their right mind saying yes. i have exactly the same questi0n. I never ever had a wet dream and I'm curious. | MuslimMatters.org, Parenting Series | Part VIII: Sexual Activities Beyond the Norm What Should We Teach Our Teens | The Sex In Islam. Salaam the emboldened part refers to masturbation, yes? I tried smelling it too but I dont think I detect any smell from it has Im not even what kind of smell Im searching for. I wish there were someone to help me. The question of womens presence cutting off prayer is one issue that Sayyida Aisha (ra) disputed, and her refutation of it is noted in Sahih Bukhari: The things which annul the prayers were mentioned before me. The cookie is used to store the user consent for the cookies in the category "Other. This cookie is set by GDPR Cookie Consent plugin. - GupShup Forums, http://www.muslimahsource.org/motherhood/muslimahs-guide-to-puberty-how-to-talk-to-your-daughter-about-adolescence/, Quandary of Female Vaginal Discharge | MuslimMatters.org, http://muslimmatters.org/2010/09/22/quandary-of-female-vaginal-discharge/, Sexual Activities Beyond The Norm: What Should We Teach Our Teens | MuslimMatters.org, A Womens Guide to Spirituality in Ramadan during Menstruation and Postnatal Bleeding - MuslimMatters.org, A Women's Guide to Spirituality in Ramadan during Menstruation and Postnatal Bleeding | MuslimMatters.org, Quandary of Female Vaginal Discharge: Pure or Impure? There is no hadith or Quranic verse prohibiting masturbation, but one of my old Islamic studies and Quran teachers said it is a bad habit. And Allah knows best. What does it mean to be sure? This is the closest that one can get to being sure. It's normal to roll over while your sleep, so don't get upset if you wake up on your stomach. I have OCD and doubts if I have a wet dream, I didnt see any man in my dream or any such just saw a rubbing of sorts in my parts. . 3. maybe this article will help you about the regular vaginal discharges: Some time ago, I gave a series of lectures on Taharah (cleanliness) to the sisters in my community. Log in, //
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